husbands..pay attention!!

huhuhu...husbands, please pay attention to this..

1.ultimately, u should know ur responsibility to ur wife and family..which one comes first.

2.after, u get married, please listen to ur mother first than ur wife..because ur mother is still your responsibility and it will always be..

3.dont hurt your mother's feelings as mothers tend to be more sensitive after u get married but at the same time they will not tell you straight in front of ur face that they are upset with you.

4.before getting married, make sure u already clearly state to ur wife-to-be that u have a big responsibility on your shoulder. and, make sure ur wife understands that and help you with it.

5.try to have sometime with your mother as sons are their fav children.

6. if you come from a big family and being the eldest means that u have to take care of your other sibs, please do so..and explain it to ur wife..if she really loves you and understands you, she will help out too..

7. if you're looking for a genuine wife, make sure she is not so materialistic up to the extent of signing a contract with you before marriage. its such a ridiculous act..and, u are actually fooled by her.

8. u should be the leader..ask your wife to listen to you, not you listening to her..

9. if u feel like marrying again, please remember the hardship moments between u and ur wife..hope it makes u think twice..

10. love ur wife dearly, but love your mother unconditionally....

p/s: if you marry a person only for their looks, u'll end up frustrated with their behaviour...looks are not everything..from my own observation.. ;-)